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A Holy Feeling: Expressing and Embracing Anger as a Form of Spiritual Friendship by Paul Blankenship

Come to Me, and Have Rest  28 “Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in … Continue reading

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The Spiritual Cancer of Distrust and Sacred Cure of Good Friendship by Paul Blankenship

The Center isn’t Holding. Joan Didion is a beloved American writer. She first entered the American mind through the essays she wrote in 1960s. At the time, Didion was “on the ground,” doing investigative journalism with hippies in the Haight-Ashbury … Continue reading

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The Anger of God and the Anger at God by Paul Blankenship

Mark Hawthorn His name was Matthew Hawthorn. He was born on September 26, 1938 in Washington, D.C. He was raised in Connecticut—a state that, you may know, gets its name from a Native American word which means “place of long … Continue reading

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Changing How the Church Sees Racism by Lois Kieffaber

I’d  like to try a little exercise.  I’m going to read off some derogatory names for some groups of people and ask you to stick up a hand if you’ve heard these terms before and know what group they are … Continue reading

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The Power of Powerlessness by Paul Blankenship

Moving Fast     As I get a bit older, I am developing a greater appreciation for life’s simple things. Like, for example, the simple beauty of sitting down. Of sitting down, that is, and being quiet. No TV on, no … Continue reading

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Why I Am a Quaker: Following Jesus, Encouraged by Friends by Deborah Suess

Spokane Friends, thank you for inviting Tim and me to be among you. It has been a gift on so many levels: * It’s been an opportunity to re-connect with so many we haven’t seen for a long time…    … Continue reading

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How Friends See the World by Paul Blankenship

News headlines “At least 50 dead and 1,300 listed as missing nearly two weeks after hurricane Dorian hit Bahamas.” “Beto O’Rourke on gun control following record number of mass shootings in the United States: ‘hell yes we’re going to take … Continue reading

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Friends of Jesus are Friends of Beauty by Paul Blankenship

Fatherly pain     My father was born in Detroit. Like many people at the time, his father worked in the then-booming automobile industry. He was one of 7 children my “mamaw,” as us grandkids say, gave birth to. My father’s … Continue reading

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Love Warriors (Be Where God is Loving You) by Paul Blankenship

John 10:27 “My sheep hear my voice. I know them, and they follow me.” Christianity in Distress Christianity is going through hard times. People are leaving the tradition, and they might never come back. It’s not just that our own … Continue reading

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Healing Silence, Sacred Presence, and the Radical Faith of Friends by Paul Blankenship

Luke 10:25-37    There was a scholar of the law who stood up to test Jesus and said, “Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” Jesus said to him, “What is written in the law? How do you read … Continue reading

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